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Going through a divorce is already hard enough, so when children are involved, it becomes even more challenging. Parents may be distraught over the fact that they may not be able to see their children as often as they may like, as being a part of a child’s life is irreplaceable and time cannot get taken back. Rest assured, there are things that you can do now to increase the chances of a child custody outcome that you prefer. Here are other tips to consider so that you can show yourself as the most suitable parent to have custody of your kids:

Spend as much time as you can with them.

Use all the time that you are allowed to see your children to show that you want to spend time with them. If you skip out on days when you were supposed to visit, it may come off as you are not prioritizing your children. Of course, a parent may have other obligations, such as work, so they can afford to care for the child properly, but otherwise they will need to be as present as they can.

Be reliable and flexible if your child needs you.

As a parent, you’ll have to show that you are willing to be flexible and change plans if your child is in need. For example, if you get a call from the school saying that your kid is feeling sick and wants to come home, then maybe you should have an arrangement with your employer so you are permitted to leave without consequence to take care of your child. If it’s within your means, you have to rearrange your schedule so that your children get the support and attention they deserve.

Keep the living space clean and comfortable.

When deciding child custody, the judge may ask about the living arrangements for the child. It can help to have photographs or video readily available for the judge to see to show where the child can play, sleep at night, and eat all the while in a clean and comfortable space. Will the child have their own room or will it be split with other siblings? Is there a quiet spot to study so they can do homework, or a play area with toys to keep them entertained? These are the kinds of questions that the judge may ask you before deciding the child custody verdict. 

As a parent, it is your job to show how you can give your child the best life possible. Do everything you can to show that you are a parent that can offer a safe and loving home. As a child custody lawyer from The Law Office of Daniel E. Stuart, P.A. would also agree with, the most important thing to remember is that the judge’s number one focus in the custody case is going to be what is in the best interest of the child.